MANIPULATION x DECEPTION
“I don’t care what I accepted in the past I’m not accepting that shit now.”
“Bih threaten me like he gon leave coo, ain’t gon sweat that”
Manipulation. If they want/act like they wanna go, let them go. Hold the door open for them. Anybody that WANTS to stay, will. Lol. Don’t let folks play wit yo emotions. Love is unconditional. Just communicate..
No need to drive me crazy, I can walk from here.
A lil harsh, but #IssaFact Nbs. I think some people have nothing better to do than to see if they can prey on your vulnerability, see what they can get out of you. Expose/acknowledge your weakness & make them your strengths. When they come back, they won’t know what to attack. #BossUpOnEm “U pose to give me this, I need that, I need money, take me out, if u really cared/loved me you would…..” dismiss em nicely then go on about your day. ☺How accessible are you?ac·ces·si·ble
1.(of a place) able to be reached or entered.
“the town is accessible by bus”
synonyms: reachable, attainable, approachable, within reach, available, on hand, obtainable; More
(of a person, typically one in a position of authority or importance) friendly and easy to talk to; approachable.Do you set boundaries? When you have something important to do, do you drop it all for a someone else when they call? When ‘they’ say jump, do you ask ‘how high?’ Are you willing to cancel plans with friends to go on a date? Do you let someone’s lack of planning become your emergency?You need to be willing to open your heart, but not to the point where it’s detrimental to your own well-being. You can still make time for the things and people that are important to you without being a pushover.When you respect your own time and boundaries, others will do the same. We teach others how to treat us. When you are too available, you may seem needy, which may put you at risk for being taken for granted.Fill your life with emotionally compelling activities.
Take care of you first.##LaughLoveThinkFacts😂💜💭💯
It took me a long time to be at peace with my demons, I’ve no desire to battle yours.
When people realize they can no longer get to you, get you to do what they want, they say “you aint shit.” They try to break your confidence. Your will to resist. “Nobody gonna love you like me.” Don’t let it get to you. Stop letting folks manipulate and control you. Love is not manipulative.
She is not crazy. She just will not let you abuse, manipulate, or belittle her. People get upset when you don’t let them use you.
Love people for who they are and not for who you want them to be. That’s where the disconnection starts.
I will certainly fail you if your expectations for me are anything other that what I already know that I am. Your problem not mine j. warren welch